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You know, guys ask me about " finding a girlfriend " and "how to become a pick up artist " and equivalent things all the time . But the correctness of the matter for all of these kind of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better advice than good old "experience". But obviously the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women? You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy. I guess I should clarify. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a partner. Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no objective of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues. However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and frequent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves. Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager? They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯ Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults. First of all, most adults never followed their parent's advice and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest. Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people ordinarily continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity. We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and ultimately it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex. Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us. Most of us didn't even know our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex. But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher. And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience. Getting Over Fears: Lowering The Gradient As A Way To Meet Up With Women And Relate To Girls When you feel uncomfortable and fearful just try to think of a lower gradient that isn't as scary and allows you to make forward progress toward your goal. Are You Afraid To Talk Or Meet Up With Ladies? Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than running away from the situation, lower the gradient. 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